The Fine Art of Posing

What was I thinking? I mean really. I know I can get the shot, I am good. But seriously, I did it by the skin of my teeth. Not cool. I need to go to posing classes.

Just because you know composition, you know the exact right moment to click the shutter does not mean you are going to get a great image. You have to have a good pose. It's tough. People come in all shapes and sizes and the couples who pay you look nothing like the couples in your inspiration folder on Pinterest. Wake up call!!!

I have a family friend I inherited when I married my husband. I asked my best friend (a pro photographer) to take our wedding pics and my husband asked his best friend (a lover of taking pictures). My husbands best friend is getting married and I of course offered my services pro bono for his wedding. We did use a ton of his pics and I felt I owed him big time. Plus, they are on a budget and what are friends for. His bride asked if we could take a picture that she could frame and have people sign at the wedding. Of course I said. I knew the location, I knew the couple and I thought I had it in the bag. Nope. 

Posing people is turning out to not be my strong suit. A very, very, very bad thing on my part. You have to know how to pose people. It does not unfortunately come natural to your subjects. Gah. 

My shoot with them was not my best portrayal in my competency at posing. As a matter of fact most of the shots were unusable because I didn't pose her ideally. Ladies, cross your legs!!! Tilt them to the side!!! What was I thinking? I am walking away from this shoot with 1 usable picture that when I look at it I immediately see things I should have changed. I am kicking myself for not catching them when we were on location and I am toying with re doing it. My best advice is to keep looking. Keep looking at pictures, keep hoarding the poses you like. Refer to them often. Often. Keep them fresh in your head so when you are shooting you can think of them on your own and not need to refer to your folder on your phone. Good grief. This should be understood and plain common sense. I am now going to fill my folder with more poses and kick myself very hard.

The Guests Have Left

This past Saturday I photographed one of my low budget weddings. It was in downtown Seattle on the roof of the cruise terminal. It was hot. The bride and groom were an hour late. Half the guests left the reception (inside the WTC) after dinner. Wow.

Luckily it was not my fault. Looking back, I am not even sure how they got to be an hour late. My guess is nerves. The bride had a bit of trouble getting into her dress. She needed her bun re done. The groom was still writing his vows as he walked to the ceremony. The mother of the groom wasn't dressed yet when I left to go to the ceremony. Granted, she had been running all over helping the bride. The crowd seemed fine. You could tell they were anxious. It wasn't until the room emptied out that I realized those poor guests paid for downtown parking, sat for close to two hours in the sweltering sun and waited for a late dinner. That's why they left. 

Meanwhile, I was left for close to two hours with barely anything to photograph. That's right. A few people danced, the cake cutting was done without any applause, the bouquet and garter toss were luckily pulled off but my bread and butter of guests and couples was none. Seriously everyone that stayed were family that I had been photographing all day. It was bizarre. I was at a loss. I felt so bad. What do you do in those situations???

Luckily I only have to give 250 pictures. Still, they are not my favorites. The day was gorgeous which translates to crappy when photographed. Clouds are much better than blue sky. Blue sky tends to wash out. Also, people squint. The formals are either angry looking from squinting or blown out from shooting in the sun. Then we segway into indoors where it's just not pretty. Still, the Seattle WTC has a great view and I know I got some good stuff. I just had to stress the whole way through.

13 Years And A Stroke Of Luck

Something very interesting happened the other day. I got a wedding inquiry from the telephone. I was shocked. Turns out a gal I went to high school with has an amazing memory.

Denise called and left me a message inquiring about photographing her upcoming wedding. I called her back as soon as I could. She asked if I went to Ballard. I said yes. She remembered me from way back then. We discussed her photography budget. It was not much, $700. I told her I had a package but it was very, very basic. For $500 she got me for 6 hours and 200 pics on CD, edited and organized. She liked it but said she had to confirm with her fiancé.

A few days later I got another message from her, she wanted to book me. I was ecstatic. I am not doing any advertising this year. I have already met my financial goal of the year. Another wedding? Ummm, yeah!! After some phone tag we met up in person to talk details.

Her and her fiancé are getting married at the Seattle World Trade Center. It's very basic but modern. Sort of small and mostly family. She wants a photographer to cover the important stuff like her dress, the formals and the two of them. I had to ask her how she found me and asked if she really just remembered me. I got the answer of a lifetime.

She did just remember me. I was the girl who was into photography, who edited the year book and the newspaper. She said she initially did a search online for wedding photographers but was quite discouraged at their prices. Her fiancé tried to talk her into not getting a pro. He suggested disposable cameras. She insisted on a pro. They actually got into heated arguments over this. He tried to thwart her by showing her expensive photographers who took candid pics. She remembered me and after a few failed attempts got my name right and found me. With my package price and the quality of my work they both found someone who would work for them. That's why I love this package and offer it. 

Now, do not ever get disposable cameras in place of a pro and just don't ever get them. Let me tell you why. 

1. They are actually pricey. You pay for them, you pay to develop them. You get maybe 1 good picture. That is one expensive picture.

2. Guests get drunk and just take pictures of the ducks. Honest to God. I photographed a wedding where they did this. No one was using the cameras until ducks started showing up. That poor couple paid all that money for drunk pictures of ducks.

3. Your guests are not pros. Those cameras are poor quality. It's a disaster in the making.

4. Everyone has a cell phone that takes pics. Best thing to do is create a hash tag on Instagram and have guests load up pictures that way. 

You may wonder why I offer such a crazy cheap package. I will tell you. I am a cheap person. When I married my husband our photographers were free. Sort of. I assisted the best wedding photographer I know. I told her that she didn't have to pay me for a gig if she came to my wedding and took portraits of my husband and I. She agreed. I have the best wedding portrait I have ever seen. Several of them actually. Our whole wedding was DIY. If I am such a budget conscious person I figured I had to offer a budget friendly package. There are tons of cute weddings occurring all the time on small budgets and I want to be there. Call it paying it forward.

So I am delighted to shoot Denise's wedding. She is getting her Masters, he is getting a PhD. She just wants the security of knowing that for this once in a lifetime event she is going to have something tangible that perfectly and beautifully reflects the day. I am so honored to do that. 

Arrogant

I will be the first to admit that I am arrogant, cold and un-friendly. I am this way to "photographers" at weddings I photograph. The couple is not paying me to tell you how to do what I do. I am being paid to take pictures they are going to look at for the rest of their lives. So please, leave me alone and let me work.

Yesterday I had the pleasure of photographing Dan and Nicky. A refreshingly funny, cute and adorable couple. I fell in love with them within minutes of our consultation. They were very down to earth, very excited about getting married and just wanted me to do what I do best. Since I liked them so much it was important to me to do a great job.

That job became threatened the minute I got to the ceremony. There was another man, who turned out to be a family friend, that started asking me questions about what I was doing for them. The catholic ceremony had started. I was rushing to the top of the church to get a shot of the guests. He was right behind me talking shop. I gave him quick, one-worded answers. I didn't look at him and I didn't stop moving. He asked me if I was giving them my disk after the wedding. I balked. I answered with a half hysterical half appalled "NO". That shut him up until the reception.

Once at the reception I was working frantically to get the lighting right. It was my worst nightmare. An extremely dark reception area. With vaulted ceilings. My stand by bounce lighting strategy was out. So there I am, in a corner, trying to focus and get the lighting right. Up behind me comes Mr. Nosey. He says to me "Well if you aren't giving them the disk do you have some sort of package deal you are giving them?". By this time I am super frustrated. I say yes. I tell him they hired me and they are getting a package deal. He then does the weirdest thing to me. He looks at me in hysterics and asks "Well what am I supposed to do with my pictures?". I flat out did not know how to respond. I fumbled over my words but finally got out I didn't care what he did with his pictures and to give them what he wanted to give them. I then turned back around and went back to shooting. He left me alone after that.

I always tell couples at consultations that I will be aggressive with other photographers. I will get in their way. I will refuse to move when asked. I will fight for the perfect shot. I was sort of thankful for this experience. I now have a better story to tell future couples about why I am so adamant about getting good pictures for them. My previous story was about a Mother of the Bride who was video taping and wanted me to move. I always thought it made me sound too rude. This one is better. Even though this gentleman wasn't interfering with me getting my shots he was interfering with me taking my shots. He was also fishing for information that I thought was confidential between my clients and I. It reminded me of Patient and Doctor confidentiality. I did not want to discuss with him the terms and price of the package we agreed on. I knew he was headed there and I had to cut him off.

So in conclusion let it be known that you do not interfere with a working photographer. As you photograph an event don't feel pressured to talk shop with the up and comers. There will always be someone in the crowd that wants your job. Do not let this intimidate you and above all, do not let this interfere with doing a great job.