Eldridge Gravy and the Court Supremes

I did something the other night I have not done in years. I stayed up late and shot a band. Yes, it was glorious. I photographed Eldridge Gravy and the Court Supremes at the LoFi. It was a huge band on a tiny stage. The band was fun, the crowd was fun, the shots were fun. Lady Gravy did a rendition of Sweet Child of Mine, it was truly epic. My favorite song now. It was so nice to get back in the swing of things and to run around a bar with authority. When you have a massive camera at a bar, people don't question, they pose. You have every right to be in front of the stage. The crowd lets you move. People aren't hostile when you are trying to navigate through the mass. They figure you have a job to do and your not trying to be rude by getting that killer vantage point. I also love going to secret places of a bar that only people with the band are allowed to go. My stuff has a safe place and I have a place to go that isn't jam packed with drunk sweaty dancers. Also, people come up to me and talk to me. Normally I am not an approachable person, my husband says its because I don't smile. Fine by me. But when I am at a bar taking pictures, people are comfortable enough to approach me and ask for copies of the images. For instance, Eldridge Gravy was wearing a sweet hat. A gal in the audience also wearing a sweet hat that would have made the entire royal wedding jealous, came up to me and asked if I got a good picture of the hat. I told her I did. She told me she made the hat and had no pro pics of it. I took her name and will be sending that pic along. Network, network, network. Hire me to shoot your band.

The Tulips Are Awesome, Photographers, Not So Much.

I have to admit that for years I hated the Tulip festival in Mt. Vernon. Why you ask? I thought it was a joke. Photographers and amateur photographers flocked up there and thought they took the best most stunning pictures and people bought it. I mean come on, seen one, seen them all. So in rebellion,I never went. Last year though, James and I went. Not sure why we went but we had a blast. I took the cliche pictures, with my crappy cell phone and loved them! Not because I thought they were some of my best work but for the memories they invoked. We were freshly pregnant and had no clue. I found two bulbs that had been cast aside in the dirt and I took them. FYI, I am a clepto. We had oyster shooters. We just hung out together.

This year I insisted on going again. I had a better cell phone camera and we had our boy. James had seen a picture by someone he works with, an amateur photographer. He thought the picture was awesome and he wanted to take me to that exact location so I could take a similar shot. We went to the location and there it was in all its glory. Fabulous tulips everywhere and photographers, everywhere. I actually loved walking around snapping pictures with my camera phone and getting glances from people with mega cameras looking at me like I was a joke. If they only knew. What exactly are they going to do with their tulip pictures? Make bank? Doubt it. They have these high quality pictures that are going to sit on a storage space and rot. While mine are going into family calendars, photo albums, slideshows, maybe make some cards out of them and then they will rot. I don't need high res images, I am not doing anything spectacular with them. I love them for their beautiful imagery and low quality.

While James and I were walking around we encountered a couple having engagement pictures done. I was a little stung, I was supposed to photograph Spike and Grace this month for their engagement pics in the tulip fields. As we walked by I heard the photographer tell the man that he looked like a fish. She told him he was making fish faces. She says out loud " What is that? You look like a fish. You're making fish faces!" Then she tells the woman " What is he doing? He is seriously making fish faces! Hahaha!" The woman laughed nervously, the man cast his eyes down. I felt so bad for this guy. Never, Ever, Never make fun of your clients. Ever. Coach them instead on what faces you are looking for. They are paying you to photograph them, not make fun of them. I was so horrified as I walked by. My husband was too. We couldn't believe what we had just witnessed. That adorable couple should have gone with a pro, like me!

Jamila

My mother works with Jamila and that is how I met her. My mom was over at my house the other day and asked me how much I charge for photographing a pregnancy. I told her $125 and knowing this was an odd question for her to ask, I asked her why. She told me about Jamila and that Jamila had originally asked her. See, Jamila has a husband in Africa. About 9 months ago she went to go visit him and came back to theStates pregnant. Her husband will miss the baby being born and never saw her during the wholepregnancy. Can you imagine? I was so touched by the story that I told my mom to get her over to my house asap. Jamila was due the day after our photo-shoot, I was quite nervous about her going into labor. My mom and I spent two days getting my studio put together. It looks awesome and I am much more comfortable inviting clients over to discuss photo-shoots and have photo-shoots. Jamila was my first client and the photos turned out, I think, amazing.

Learning Curve

I have a package that I am offering couples that is $550. I am doing this to get back into the business and at the same time, offer a package that is really worth the $550 and not sell myself short. Surprisingly, I have come across several things I need to be more clear on.

1. Travel Time and Cost

I hadn't really thought of this and it may have cost me a wedding. I live in Lynnwood and have been advertising in Bellingham. I do this because my husband has friends up there and things he can do so if we both go together, it is not exactly a cost. Well, a couple found me and we had a meeting to discuss the wedding. They were actually getting married at Peace Arch up at the Canadian border. They wanted to know what I would charge for travel up there. I admit, I was caught off guard and said the best answer I could on short notice. That answer was they would have to pay my gas cost. They were not happy with that answer. I was then lectured by the bride about how I should charge per mile and my time. They said they would pay me $30 extra for travel. Lesson Learned: I need to figure out a travel fee, stat.

2. Tell Me About Yourself

I hate this one. People want to know about me. As me in me personally. I feel awkward here because really, why do they care? They are hiring me for my photography skills, what does my personal life have to do with it? I tell them about my two degrees in Photography and how long I have been taking wedding pictures. I tell them how I got in the business and then I stop. They always look at me as if they are not quite sure if I answered their question. Lesson Learned: I need to come up with a memorized monologue that satisfies.

3. References

What? I don't keep in touch with clients. Should I? Couples are asking for references and I don't get it. Do the pictures not speak for themselves? Do my albums not clearly show that my couples are clearly having a great time and I did an amazing job? What is a reference going to tell them? Why would I give them a bad one? I feel so weird contacting a couple I haven't spoken to in forever and asking them if I can send their email to a stranger and have them answer questions. They are busy, they all have lives. They are not a former employer. Yes, in a way they are. They hired me to do a professional service for them, but its not like a 9-5 job where references are expected. Lesson Learned: Get over it. Make sure to have go-to couples who would be willing to give a great reference.

4. Changes to the Package

My hours for the $550 wedding photo package is 6 hours. What do I charge for more time? Excellent question. That is a tough one for me. The package is meant to be low budget. Those are the people I am looking for. It even states that in the ad " Wedding Photography for LOW BUDGET weddings". My 8 hour package is $1200. That is a huge difference from $550. Granted, I offer a lot more in the 8 hour package. However, 8 hours means more pictures which means more of my time overall. I will admit, I got taken advantage of. I have a couple getting close to the $1200 package for several hundred less. Lesson Learned: figure out how much an hour extra you are. Be stern when you say this and don't be shy about explaining why.

5. Thank You

I also realized that I should always email a thank you after a meeting. One client was meeting me and two other photographers in one day. Somehow I didn't get the gig but I sure wish I had sent a thank you. Perhaps it would have given me an upper hand?